If begin to find fault each other to the couple, mean them to appear very bad on conflict processing. Save romantic method, trying to come with utterance namely the relation of repair both sides, say for example a few " I am very sorry " the word of and so on.
Often be the attitude that conjugal one party adjusts another, murdered bilateral love, because they did not handle negative affection good. Dr. Howard Makeman says.
"Masturbation is not the problem of a bisexual relation, this is how one has ego pilot problem. " Dr. Steven Sidongni says, "Shame was full of in the heart of the person that masturbate, and this is one kind is punished by ego of other place pilot system. After masturbating when you, you can feel to be fed up with your, and won't sympathize with oneself behavior. "
Keyword 3: The child
In head of postnatal of the first child 3 years, the couple of 67% is spent in relation satisfaction on can experience an affection trough, this trough happens on maternal body above all, it is father next.
Parents meets the child that affects them in the intense concern in marriage, this is one of reasons with child traitorous adolescence normally.
When conflicting since parents, the child always hopes to escape normally far.
Keyword 4: Off the rails
After there is off the rails action in one party, off the rails person if if still want to let marriage,relation continuance goes down, the anguish that must pay close attention to a spouse is experienced.
After the spouse has off the rails action, discovery rejects to excuse the other side, no matter be,go up from affection from physiology for, this is not quite healthy. "Lack is excused, harm relation of husband and wife like bane simply. " psychologist Dr. Bolamusi Sibailin says Gunisi A.
Although be after the spouse is off the rails, excuse to repair feeling it is very necessary. But a few off the rails person excuse this kind look too too cheap. Actually, excusing is not only true good-tempered, and must be somewhat of redound. Too excuse a spouse easily too, make a few off the rails person use this kind of experience instead, continue to develop their shocking sexual relationship, the contribution that because they won't see themselves truly,should make to marital place. (Zhou Lianlian / compile)