Unless you have courage,face the marriage like corpse. Otherwise, still do not want miserly language.
9, the family that accepts him
It doesn't matter can say, each other, normal human feelings.
10, do not abandon beauty
The life after marriage is a file, destroy your appearance very easily without the file of breath soundlessly. Fasten extravagant hopes to who can be this and be touched. Protect oneself carefully, you can have safe feeling more.
11, do not abandon self-confidence
Sometimes, self-confidence is your weapon finally.
12, assume responsibility
Marriage enrichs whole world into two people. You are yourself no longer satiate the lone noble that fed even the dog. Should assume the responsibility that oneself attribute in build up.
Especially, try faithful marriage.
Not be hypocritical. Unless you had decided to abandon, do not try easily otherwise off the rails. Extramarital affair, be just like drugs actually, instantaneous joy is exciting. The only available void that leave, compunction, ashamed remorses.
Cannot resist really alluring, also do not give feeling as far as possible. Lover, just pester normally at the desire. Who is taken seriously, whose predecease.
13, still should bless marriage
No matter because of what reason, choose marriage, chose whole second half to be born namely.
Perhaps be destined insipid, perhaps can have but.
But at least we should keep watch happy, expect joy.
Perhaps we were destined not to change the world, but at least the view that we can change pair of worlds. Be?